Why don't you feel like your M is savable? I mean, it takes everything out of me, not just to tell you that you're wrong because there have been way worse situations where the M was saved, but perhaps you haven't yet told me something... So tell me why?
I'm trying to decide in the last four months what my best day was with my H. Was it the day that he told me to go f myself? Or was it the day that I found evidence of an A? Maybe it was the day he found another place to live. Listen, sweetie, it is bad, yes. But, that doesn't mean anything.
What are you going to do about it??? What are the 180's? Why, why, why are you still fighting with her? Where in God's name is Mr Bond because he will have quite a bit to say about the co-parenting issues. That just isn't cool.
What changes are you making? Don't just lay down and die. Fight... if for nothing else than for your daughters and yourself. But fight smart. And seriously, you have got to spend more time here. There are so many people who can help you if you give them a chance. The guys on this board are AWESOME and a lot of them are going through what you are. ScaredinCanada also is dealing with trying to parent his children while going through his tough sitch. There are a few differences, but he certainly can help with advice on how to handle the co-parenting with a less than willing spouse.
