That's the thing Ironman, snooping does not serve any purpose right now. What are you going to do if you find out something is going on? And if you find out that everything is innocent? Does that change anything with what your W wants right now?

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Denver

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce