WAW tearing up our family

[ironMan]

I keep asking myself .... ok ... what if she were going to Chi to hang out with some guy .... then what would I do?

Maybe not knowing is better. After all, she already things she wants a divorce so I have no leverage to call her out on the BS anyway.

There is a difference between being in denial and snooping for the bad news though. I'm sure that, being in tech and all, I could find many a way to snoop if I thought that knowing would serve any purpose.