I just mailed in a V-card and box of candies for my daughter. In the V-card, i did mention my W's name wishing her too. I did not get her any present though. She's still angry and already is detached and does not want anything from me. I'll give her the space that she so wants right now.
I think if you get flowers it might look like pursuing.
BITS M 38 W 36 D 7 Married 15 yrs W left for 6 months in 2009 W Filed for D 01/03/11 piecing now...