wow, it must be hard. My W took my D away 2 months ago and i have not seen her since. We are still trying to get the divorce done. It feels horrible to miss out on my daughter. She also did the birthday part without me.

But i am trying to keep the hope alive with the bigger picture in mind to see if i can get my W and the M back together even if the D goes through.

I would say enjoy your time with your kids. Show them all the love you would have shown your wife. You might feel better.

BITS
M 38
W 36
D 7
Married 15 yrs
W left for 6 months in 2009
W Filed for D 01/03/11
piecing now...