Thank you Michelle for sticking with my sicth for so long. I know that if I am not getting a 2x4 from you I must be doing something right. Waiting on my other favorite 2x4 person……where is the Gritter Keep me grounded.
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I can so relate to your position here. My XH acted like everyting was perfectly fine for almost 2 years. He says he was just acting like everything was fine because he was hoping that would make everything go back to normal, but the only person he didn't have fooled was himself. Everyone else, including me, had NO CLUE anything was wrong, until I found out about his PA and then when I confronted him he told me he wanted to S. But it was my fault I wasn't a good enough mind reader to know that he was unhappy.
In my case I knew she was upset about certain things I just didn’t realize how upset and how hurt she was. She told me, she screamed at me, she argued with me. One thing she said to me was “I tried telling you every which I could. When I stopped caring I realized it would make you lash out more and I was scared that is why I left so quick.” Some things don’t hurt others cut deep. I never wanted to hurt her.
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you can't make it all your fault
Once I get to this point I think the healing will be quicker. I struggle with this because she is such a caring person. When she talks to me it sounds like she knew so much better than I knew her.
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You can't change the past, so focus on the future. And you have a bright one in store for you!
For xmas I sent her a present and she sent me one. I sent her a carousel (she collects them) on it was this message engraved “Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending”
I appreciate your insight very much Michelle I am sure after over 9k post you have seen every sicth under the sun. I am glad you are so upbeat about mine. You have been instrumental and correcting my mistakes and pointing interpreting some of her comments for me. Thank you
