[quote=nic1 If detachment doesn't equal no contact, is there any contact I should be making with H? He seems to be interacting with the OW more since I've gone dark. I know, I can't control that, right? [/quote]
Nic, you are right about detachment not equaling not contact. But if you need to have no or little contact in order to detach, then that is what you need to do. As far has H interacting with OW in of non consequence. She is not the enemy, the devil is! Pray for your husband and for yourself. Walk closely with God and ask him to change you to be the woman that God wants you to be. Then you will be able to focus on who you are and the love that God has for you. You are loved! No matter what H says, he doesn't give you value, YOU and God do, so don't let H words weave their way into soul, those are the words of the devil. Keep your focus on God.
Lorie W47 H48 D16 M20 H gone 11/9/10 lives w/OW
When you forgive,you heal. When you let go,you grow. When you cry to God, you surrender. When you love unconditionally, you show others Christ's love.
