I am not so sure. I see others have R talk, and sometimes it seems positive, and sometimes negative. My W and I do not talk about R. I feel like it is making it easier for her because she doesn't have to deal with anything.

I feel she is walking away looking over her shoulder stunned that it is really going to be this easy just to walk away.

I thought time was on my side, but she comes off to me as the longer it goes, the easier it is to accept her decision. Nothing is stopping her so she might as well procede.


H-40 W-38
Together-20
Married-12
boy-7 girl-3
bomb-9/17/10
No papers
live together
No affair