Thank you grr so much. You are such a calming voice here. I needed that.

And this is what I would tell you if you were meeting your H tonite...

"i know the feeling all to well and really it is at these times when we think the worst
you need to start thinking positive right now
i like what 2step said
you ARE all those things (pretty, intelligent, compassionate)
BE all of those things tonight

no matter what goes down, remember, you are in this for the long haul
and what goes down, might just be beautiful
try to put yourself in a good place

remember that we are basically animals and can smell desperation
you are not desperate
you are funny, cute and give great advice"

It is great advice.

BITS
Denver

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce