I guess it rattles me bc I don't understand why she wouldn't want to go together. I'm so wrapped up in worrying about what she is going to tell me. Is she wanting to meet bc she knows that she has something to tell me that I will take badly and doesn't want to have to ride with me back to our part of town?
Get your head out of your a$$ and stay focused. She does not want to go with you. SO what? Meet her there with a big smile but also very calm.
I am telling you denver if you try to jump in both feet first she will be spooked and you will be back to square one. You are spending too much time analyzing her reactions and responses to be clear headed.
Y "hey W how's 6PM at this place?"
W "That's fine"
Y "Great see you there"
End of convo. No pressure no expectations and no suffocating her.
Go in with this mind frame.
I am a great guy I am handsome, funny, intelligent, and compassionate I have made mistakes and I hope to correct them If I am not given a second chance I will be fine and so will she I do not own her she is her own person
Sounds a little silly I know but if you say that in your head it just might put you in a calmer state. You know she is already cautious so for the rest of the day do what you have to do and get ready for your dinner.
I know you are nervous, he!! I am nervous for you. Expectations tend to ruin everything, think of this as the first street sign you have seen on a long journey not the destination.
