I completely understand how you're feeling. Most likely, it is nothing. Our imaginations can get the best of us if we let them. Hell, I'm the king of that!

You are right, there is nothing that you can do about it unless you decide to call the girlfriend in Chicago. Of course, I STRONGLY advise AGAINST this.

When we ask those innocent questions, we set ourselves up for what you are feeling right now. Again, you're talking to the king of doing this kind of stuff.

I think that the best thing to do is to stay away from asking those questions and hope for the best. If, later, we find out something bad has happened, we deal with it then. Honestly, this is the only choice that we have right now.

I know that this is much easier said than done though.

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Denver


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce