I am usually the doubting thomas on this board. My situation didn't work out and the divorce is just about final. It took awhile, but everything ended up ok for the most part. Moved on, dating again, kids allright..

However,you are the first guy I have read about that actually has a legitimate shot at making this happen. You are doing all the right things from a DB perspective. I found that we don't heal until we give up hope, except our fate and move on. That is when you find if your W really wants the divorce. Well, mine did...However, yours appears to be rethinking everything by her actions. Stay Strong. I am with you on the lifting everyday. Makes a huge difference in how you feel about yourself..

Good Luck.


Remarried 6 mo
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