BeingMe and Braveheart you are both spot on with your replies. Braveheart son as been at college for near on 6 months now. to the last happenings son as said he just wants to go beat the pulp out of his father, ah well life goes on. BeingMe as luck has it aunt as just changed her will and will be leaving ex or his wifey nothing at all, only in the last fortnight as she removed ex from her will and also nominated somone else to be the executor, her words are they have taken enough they will get no more