On a side note...W always told me that things had been bad for a year when the bomb came. I didn't believe that. I remembered a few fights over a few months, but that's it. Just yesterday, I decided to look back over some old emails. Well, guess what? She's right I could see where things starting getting bad at least a year before the bomb - and probably before that. Guess her sense of that was better than mine.
So, it seems that my timeline (so far) is something like this: * Started getting bad for 12 months before the bomb * Separation about a month after bomb * Back home 11 days later, W agrees to try again * First 2 months, good, but slow and a little tentative * In the last 6 weeks, it really feels more genuine to me (been home 3.25 months in total)
So I dunno, feels to me like a few more months. If that's right (and God only knows if it is), I'm on the home stretch. I know that's risky thinking, but I have to do it to keep on going. Who wants to quite a marathon when they're already over half way done? Not me.
M: 39 W: 37 Married: 9 D5; S3 "It's Over" 09/26/10 11 Day Sep 10/10 Piecing Starts 11/4/10 Piecing Fails 4/11 I move out 5/11 Hire Lawyer 6/11 - Stall 6/22/11 Piecing #2 - 6/22/11 Home 10/11