I have to be honest, between eyes welling up and coming close to vommiting - that was hard to read.
I very sorry all the hardship you've had, and really just want you know that I read it and I'll offer whatever support I can. I think for now LIS has offered the best advice. I will continue to read and follow your sitch as I can.
Take care, BITS SIC
Me - 34 W - 33 M - 8 years T - 15 years D7, D5, D2 Bomb Nov 10/2010 "I'm not happy and INILWY" W Staying for the kids Mar 13/2011