So... painting, business, kids, bible study, furniture, choir... and not necessarily in that order. You have no idea how happy I am to hear these things.

So... what are are your goals for today? What are you doing today to start getting Ms. Rae back?

What are your goals tomorrow? Bolt talks a lot about goals. So let's start listing those daily goals here. Let's see if we achieve them. If not, why? I so need help in this area as well.

Mr. Rae... unappreciative? And a complete a$$. Stop doing his stuff for him. Stop doing his laundry. Stop cooking his dinner every night. Stop cleaning up after him. It's amazing what happens when you just stop. Do it nicely. Don't be mean. Do the things that MUST be done (i.e. pay the bills), but anything else, JUST STOP. Listen, my H is the biggest a$$ when it comes to that stuff. I work full-time just like him but every weekend was a freaking party for him while I busted my a$$ to clean up after him. I stopped. And you know what? He stayed over last night and he actually cleaned up after himself and folded up his own blankets.

And truly, truly, "Be still and know that He is God." Peace, my dear, you need some peace.

I'm praying for you.


Me- 40
H - 43
M - 5
T - 14
Separated 2/5/11