I have primary custody of my 4 kids but I have to let him claim 2 kids each year on taxes otherwise he might not be able to afford the child support payments. Kind of a mess because we alternate which 2 are claimed each year. And to be clear the boys have never stayed with him since he married his affair partner.
I hope it works out in your favor.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory