just so sad

[abbey1989]

Thank you Being Me!
And so sorry my long story was posted 3 times. I was obviouly anxious because it wasn't posted right away. Thought I was having computer probs.

I know what you are saying about H possibly waiting until D graduates from HS or goes off to college in the fall. It has definitely crossed my mind. In fact, H and D just flew out early this morning to check out a couple of colleges and they won't be back until Saturday.

Last night we ML. It was nice. When they were leaving for the airport this morning I told him I loved him and gave him a hug. He hugged me back and said he loves me. Then he hugged me again, looked me in the eyes and said I love you. Not words often spoken by him, and it did make me feel good.

Regarding getting my house in order, I do already have a separate bank account that I use for managing S's college expenses so that is done. I manage all of our business and personal expenses so am up on where we are.

Can anyone tell me why would OW go after a married man? I honestly think it is shameless (and obviously he's not without fault!) My H had always worn his wedding ring up until about 2 years ago. He hasn't worn it since and says it is now too tight. I don't think that is the reason. I take my wedding vows very seriously. I have supported H through thick and thin. In good times and bad times. I have never once thought about having an A outside of our marriage. I am a "fixer". But I don't know how to fix this. Has anyone hired a PI before? I feel slimy even thinking about it.

Thanks for listening...