3. Yeah you know about the details in the email, but you have no idea about x, y , and z. There is still a ton you don't know that I will keep from you.
The thing I see with this option...
Do you really want to know all of the gory details?
When you sneeze, do you examine the tissue under a microscope so that you know every intimate detail of your snot, or do you say, "yuck" and throw it out?
You know the big picture and probably more details that you want already. I think I would just leave her to have certain aspects to herself and leave it at that.
If there are things that don't pertain to the A, yes she needs to be open about those.
Thanks, cat. I wasn't really pertaining about the details of the affair. I was more talking about secrets in general. Examples. What has she REALLY told her parents? Has she found other avenues to contact OW? These are the sorts of things I was talking about. Trust me, I know enough of the gory details. I would never wish having to read some of those details about your loved one to my worst enemy.
Me - 33 W - 33 S - 9 months M - 3 years T - 5.5 years Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY PA discovered - 1/18/11 PA began - 3/22/10 Separated
