Originally Posted By: grr
bolt, i am patting you on the back
you have turned things around in such a great way
you have realized what your wife needs and given in spades
it's funny husband always used to say i never gave him "credit" for the things he would do
i thought that he should, as my partner, just do them
but now i realize, that a kind word for something that he did would have gone a long way


It's sad that we realize that almost too late. The good news is that we can relearn and do better. Have you read that five love languages book? It has helped me tremendously.

Originally Posted By: grr

by the way...who is your new friend???
"honey"??? really???
and yes, people get let go for someone else's perception
happens all the time now
yikes
anyway - bolt have a great day and a big hug and even bigger pat on the back from your pal in nyc


HA! Yeah, new friend smile We go waaaay back

I wanted to say that we had another great night. She's really opening up more and more and feeling very comfortable with the new Bolt and the new Mrs. Bolt. I know it's just a matter of time before we are going to start peeling the paint off the walls (if you catch my drift).

She's being so much more attentive to my needs and we are acting as a couple again. I'm glad we're going through this because I'm feeling so much more love for her now. It's definitely been rekindled.

Time to stay on my goals!!

thanks for the encouragement. I wish you the best as well!


m 40
w 38
married 15
together 18
d11, d8
bomb 12/19/10
2nd bomb 3/30/11
COMPLETELY DONE