dude - she's thinking about you during the day. That's pretty huge. Feels good, doesn't it?

REMEMBER THAT FEELING! When you guys meet or talk after SHE calls you, tell her that. Say something like, "Thanks for texting me the other day just to say hi; it meant a lot."

Man, that will give you back in spades. You know why? She's trying to reach out even just a little bit. The fact that you are aware of it and mention it will validate her. I'm not sure why we as husbands didn't get that book when we exchanged vows but I'm POSITIVE we wouldn't be where we are if we did.

(that last sentence sounded weird typed but I hope you got it)

REMEMBER! Stay the course. Let her reach out to you. Enjoy the small victories and continue to GAL.

I'm very damn happy for ya!


m 40
w 38
married 15
together 18
d11, d8
bomb 12/19/10
2nd bomb 3/30/11
COMPLETELY DONE