When I was feeling good about our R I really like it when W initiated and pursued, though I had to perceive it as genuine desire for me and my happiness.
Growing up my examples of genuine love were expressed as small gifts of self and self sacrifice for the beloved person. So I suppose I am predisposed to appreciate pursuit. That said with the amount of hurt and mistrust I feel toward my MLC, WAW I think I would view pursuit with a great deal of suspicion now. She decided to leave and I would love her to initiate a turn about, but very slowly to build trust before any pursuit.
JMO I don’t know how it could apply to your sitch
Grr, thanks for the pepe le pew visual, I needed a smile this morning
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
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