Oh yes, this is the good news thread I was looking for!!!!!!
2Step,
I agree with the others. I don't feel that there is any way that I could be more proud of you. But you know what I'm proudest of? When she mentioned about not knowing if she could reconcile and one of the others posted about that, you answer was very, very telling. You said 2 months ago, it would have broken you. Today, you're able to shrug it off. What HUGE growth!!!
So... from a girl who has dumped a few guys (sorry), she is not talking like someone who is about to get divorced. She is talking like someone moving towards reconciliation. You already know this. There are too many things in that conversation that she said that a woman would NEVER SAY if she really wanted out. Emotionally, we're pretty smart that way and know exactly what to do not to encourage a guy. They give classes on this in kindergarten.
Ummm... the book her sister gave her??? She read that to you? grr is right, as usual, she's fighting pride right now. Perhaps she will use God as the "excuse" to come back (the best excuse there is, IMHO). I just love, love, love that whole exchange. From Genesis to Corinthians... so much scripture on why coming back to 2Step is the right thing to do for Mrs. 2Step.
All of this is so encouraging. Tell me, any mention of the paperwork??? You were real concerned about that a couple of days ago. Has she breathed a word?
