FOBD - after I read your post on this thread about the control issue and your experience after your Dad passed away, man I felt like I was reading my life story only diff was this all happened to me after my Mom passed away. I have re-read that post alot and I can't believe how parallel that part of our sith are. And how I didn't realize how depressed and disconnected I had become from myself and my H. Wow - I'm sitting here at my desk in utter silence.

My board sister LIS - for you to share with us such a horrific event in your life, I feel nothing but honored. Please know that this will only be of small comfort to you, but know that I am proud to know a survivor. I work for a breast cancer org and I am always honored when I meet or talk to surivivors. You all have overcome such adveristy and offer us hope and redemption.

I pray for you and your sitch. That your H comes out of the fog and sees what a wonderful women you are. That he isn't going to find anyone better than you out there.

Keep strong LIS - I hope you have a great day.

(((HUGS)))


BITS

M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0
T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd)
WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved
Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10
Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11