sara - same here my actions caused a setback as well ok bolt (who i already dig) my goal for today:
treadmill for half hour be cheerful, friendly and hot when he picks me up to drive me to train station no r talk laugh my butt off at read thru (might help my mood)
there that was easy enough but lets see what my mouth does to mess this up anybody loan me some tape?
have a great day everyone
just remember the goals throughout the day and you won't need any tape!
m 40 w 38 married 15 together 18 d11, d8 bomb 12/19/10 2nd bomb 3/30/11 COMPLETELY DONE
My goal for today is to a random act of kindess for someone. to me that could mean holding the door for someone, letting car into my lane of driving, helping a co-worker to just saying thank you to someone.
Let's see how I go.
I like this one, especially if it's new. I bet this goal keeps coming back a couple of times until it becomes second nature.
I always open doors for people just because. Unless they don't say thank you, then I slam it in their chops. You should see their reaction to that!
m 40 w 38 married 15 together 18 d11, d8 bomb 12/19/10 2nd bomb 3/30/11 COMPLETELY DONE
Oooohhh... I really like this. The thing I don't do and I really should is if I don't achieve a goal for the day, I don't go over why and how to do better. That's huge. I love it.
LIS, I think that's a very important part of the goal - checking to see how you did. Else, how would you learn from mistakes?
The most important thing though is to not beat yourself up about not accomplishing a goal. Just set it again another day. You'll accomplish it eventually.
m 40 w 38 married 15 together 18 d11, d8 bomb 12/19/10 2nd bomb 3/30/11 COMPLETELY DONE
Goals for tomorrow -walking @ least 5,000 steps -plan something for ME for Valentines -journal/bible study -review DB techniques WHOOHOO! Have a great day!
H 42, W 41 M 23, T 26 2Kids: S 19, D 16 H had 2 year PA Seperated
My first goal is to join a gym today. I have lost about 35lbs with the stress in my life over the last few months. Now it's time to start getting healthy and looking good.
Me 44 W 38 M 18 D 18 D 13 Bomb 10/21/2010 Divorced 7/19/2011 Just getting to the 7th inning!
Bolt, I couldn't get on the boards last night so sorry for not reporting in! I think I did meet my goal yesterday but in the way that I had thought and posted. I have a new volunteer treasurer at my office and she gets flustered very easily and I get flustered very easily with people like that. In fairness, she is taking this job over from someone who left it all in shambles. So, when she came in yesterday as usual she was very disorganized and flustered, I kept my cool and just tried to help her walk thru some things. I was just reacting very mellow and focused. It wasn't forced, but I noticed SHE was calmer and my energy was better spent this way then getting angry and defensive.
Today's goal is to make amends with SIL#2 who I've had issues with in the past. Not major ones, but let's just say that I was very critical and judgemental. I am meeting her tonight for coffee. And I'm going in with the mindset that when I treat people this way, how do I expect them to treat me back? And, what I'm looking to get out of the situation. Obviously, I was only encouraging more of the same.
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M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
sir bolt i did very well yesterday thank you very much
today's goals workout before work (better get crackin on that one) aside from normal job, make some phone calls for the fabulous charity i am associated with keep my big mouth shut when talking to h keep on keepin on
bolt, i love that you are the headmaster of this school
After work, after appt with C Clean the entrance and kitchen floors Knock down and tape cardboard boxes W stacked on Sat Make meals ahead for the wkend
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill
Goals for tomorrow