Thanks Bolt.

Last night on W and I were TMing each other on the way to meet for dinner out with the kids. During the conversation, she throws in a "You're such a good dad, ILY" comment.

I have noticed that these types of little compliments have started to come back. This is not the first, but I still notice. In the old days, they were common, then not so much. They are starting to make a way back into our conversations.

Also over the weekend, we had a somewhat risqué conversation that W initiated. Again, something that was common before and then not. She did throw in "well, I know that's not where we are at the moment, though" comment. That part sucked, but overall an improvement.

I see so many positives starting to show back up. I need to focus my attention on those and not what's still missing. Based on what I know about Thoughts leading to Feelings leading to Actions, this can be nothing but good news...all we need is a little more time.


M: 39 W: 37
Married: 9
D5; S3
"It's Over" 09/26/10
11 Day Sep 10/10
Piecing Starts 11/4/10
Piecing Fails 4/11
I move out 5/11
Hire Lawyer 6/11 - Stall 6/22/11
Piecing #2 - 6/22/11
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