2, for some reason I couldn't get on the boards last night and i just got caught up. I AM SOOOOO PROUD OF YOU!! You have said to your W all the words I want to say to my H and I sort-of did in my letter but you did it so much better. Can you call and talk to him for me??!!! I know he feels just like your W does and I feel just like you do.
You are on your way my friend. The lack of trust thing has to be earned and supported by actions. She's right that it doesn't happen over night and I know that you know that as well. You are kicking some DB'g A$$! You are slowly penatrating thru that huge stonewall she has put up.
Your doing a great job of keeping the expectations in check, validating etc. Man oh man - fab, fab, fab.
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M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
