Well I am meeting with a lawyer today. Probably not the best day of my life but everytime I talk to her all she says is please divorce me. On a good note she wants to use the same lawyer so I guess I can make this all work out in my favor.
I am not as bad off as I was over the weekend but I am still hurting very badly. I have read through almost every post on this board in the newcomers section. I can't for the life of me understand how this is happening to all of these people. I would have never imagined my wife could ever have done this. I don't know how this alien took over her body but it has and it is a very ugly person.
We both always said from the beginning that if one of us wanted to cheat that we were to divorce first. Obviously that didn't happen. So as far as the deal breaker. I need some time to think things through. I can't decide this while I am angry at her and maybe if we get divorced and I start moving on with my life my mind will change. I read that a relationship can become stronger after this happens. So I need to think about many things for a while. Maybe I should have divorced her back in October. That is all she wants anyway.
I remember that I am supposed to believe nothing she says and only about 50% of what I see. Some of the things she has said make me think she might be lying about sleeping with this guy. This may be why she is pushing so hard for the divorce. As you know my mind is racing around and I just need everything to slow down for a little while.
I want to thank everyone for looking at my thread and now I can completely relate to the BITS! I feel like I am in the "S" up to my nose!
Me 44 W 38 M 18 D 18 D 13 Bomb 10/21/2010 Divorced 7/19/2011 Just getting to the 7th inning!
