Personally I've always loved and craved when a woman pursues me. Even in my M, the best times for ML would be when my W would initiate (probably 5 times in 8 years :()
Although I've never been a WAS so I am not sure if this feeling would be the same if walked away from my W.
I think you maybe onto something though, as I am sure there some differences that you use DB whether you are dealing with a man or a woman.
As everyone usually says, Men normally need physical connection in R, whereas Woman usually require more emotoional connection/stimulation than physical.
I'm not doctor, but I think many will agree with these conditions and thus agree that some of the ways you implement DB maybe different when it comes to men and woman.
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Me - 34 W - 33 M - 8 years T - 15 years D7, D5, D2 Bomb Nov 10/2010 "I'm not happy and INILWY" W Staying for the kids Mar 13/2011