Yeah, definitely guilt. I hope the cleaner lady did press charges ... no-one should be treated like that. I am glad, though, that she gave him a piece of everyone's mind. Good for her.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
Seeking answers and BeingMe, no sadly the cleaning lady didnt press charges, I sure wish she had of done, I dont think this is the last of it, the cleaning lady is quite a feisty type and so is her mum, way back when the ex married his wifey this ladies mum was best friends with wifey so much so that she was matron of honor, they fell out with this ladies mum due to the fact that lady took it on board to clean for his old aunt. there as been so much mess and upset with a lot more people than me and son, its so unbelievable how many people have turned against ex because of his wifey and also his behaviour. I believe that the ladys mum will be having her say also when she next bumps into the flumps. lol, what a show, but moreso how embarassing to have your dirty cheating theiving ways broadcast across a busy public area, not good me thinks I am sure I would of died of embarassment. but ex and wifey dont seem to feel embarassment nor guilt or shame, but thats them, so pleased I am out of it all xxxxxxxxxxxxx
They don't show it outwardly, but I bet they do feel it inside. Although, I'm sure they have justified their actions to themselves, and probably believe the ol' aunt is to blame for something or other.
Aren't you glad you and S are out of this mess?
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
wow, I haven't been on for so long my topic got lost, but here I am folks . Old aunt hasn't been too well this last weekend, her elderly neighbour tried in vain to sort her out, and in a state of panic she phoned the ex, well thankfully he went round and sorted her electrics out for her ( she had managed to blow all the electrics in the house), as auntie was also in a state of panic and having trouble breathing he insisted he called the doctor out to see her. wow a big change to the cotton bull story he blarted out to the cleaner. He managed to hang around until the doctor came and took her prescription to the chemist for her and managed to drop it off. after this aunties doctor freind called round and insisted he took her to hospital to be checked out properly, they kept aunt in overnight and all day yesterday, chest infection, weakened heart, asthma you name it she has it, anyways the hospital doped her up and changed her tablets, inhalers etc, the doctor friend then called me to inform me what had gone on, at the same time he had called ex to let him know, ex has called aunt today to see how she is. see there is still some of the old ex in there and he does care. how long it will keep up no one will know, but the matter of the tale is at least he is still there when she is in an emergency state. but should it not of been him that took her to the hospital and got her sorted out instead of some family friend, mmmm one wonders, good news is that she seems to be doing a bit better today
Hi Mandy! Your poor H's aunt ... hope she continues to get better. Your ex should've been there visiting and noticing when things go wrong. Thank goodness for good neighbors.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
Good to hear from you Mandy despite aunt's circumstances...
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Thankyou for your replies BeingMe and Trusting, things are deteriorating with old aunt, I spoke to the guy looking after her, he is a friend of old aunt, albeit to say should not be the ex that is tending and looking after her, in what appears as the last of her days, only hope and pray she makes a recovery but on speaking to her last night she is gravely ill. I feel so hopeless and helpless, I should be able to call the ex and tell him to get his ass over there and fulfil his duties, following his two calls to aunt on tuesday he hasnt been in touch since, it is now down to the friend to tend and deal with aunt, what a guy this friend is, he is a trainees surgeon at the local hospital and he has taken time out of work and stayed with aunt all day and night, come on ex I say it is time to step up to the plate and do what you should be doing.
I hope auntie hasn't left ex anything in her will .... him and his ol' wifey will just spend it on junk. Oh wait, they've already spent her money. Silly me.
Thank goodness, she has a friend. I hope she recovers, but if not, she has someone by her side in the end.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
Good for her.
. Old aunt hasn't been too well this last weekend, her elderly neighbour tried in vain to sort her out, and in a state of panic she phoned the ex, well thankfully he went round and sorted her electrics out for her ( she had managed to blow all the electrics in the house), as auntie was also in a state of panic and having trouble breathing he insisted he called the doctor out to see her. wow a big change to the cotton bull story he blarted out to the cleaner. He managed to hang around until the doctor came and took her prescription to the chemist for her and managed to drop it off. after this aunties doctor freind called round and insisted he took her to hospital to be checked out properly, they kept aunt in overnight and all day yesterday, chest infection, weakened heart, asthma you name it she has it, anyways the hospital doped her up and changed her tablets, inhalers etc, the doctor friend then called me to inform me what had gone on, at the same time he had called ex to let him know, ex has called aunt today to see how she is. see there is still some of the old ex in there and he does care. how long it will keep up no one will know, but the matter of the tale is at least he is still there when she is in an emergency state. but should it not of been him that took her to the hospital and got her sorted out instead of some family friend, mmmm one wonders, good news is that she seems to be doing a bit better today