Thank you for your reply i will keep reading it over. I just want to point out that i had walked away from him and what i could see was happening and went into my bed ( we r in seperate rooms) He followed me burst open the door and flicked on the light and as he was telling me off i was saying "i am not your child" and turning off the light but he kept turning it on and was barring the doorway. I tried to push away his arm( i couldnt) and thats when he called me the name and treatened to leave. I am pretty sure he wouldnt cos he has my son dependant on him to fall asleep BUT because he holds all the money and I cant work in a paid job for health reasons he knows i am feeling helpless and am reliant on him. I have no one around to go to help me with the kids or if i am unwell and he knows it. Anything i said in response to him would anger him and he probably wouldnt take it seriously anyway.
