Two months ago that comment would taken the wind out of my sails but tonight I shrugg it off. Whatever may be may be my friend. I am going to catch up with your sicth soon I am sorry I am falling behind.
By the way 'Come Back' by Pearl Jam is a song I have listened to since that night 100 times a day. Check out 'Just Breath' by them also
She just doesn't want to admit it yet. Her pride is trying to protect her. But the pint is that she is "with" you every night practically. She is coming back every day.
I'm a pretty huge Pearl jam fan... I love just breath too: )
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M 11/11/00 Bomb end of September 2010 Filed 11/9/10
As a women who can relate to the way your wife feels, I think it's great that you keep telling her that you think she's great and was a good wife. Us girls need to hear that. I know it's hard to hear her bringing up the things you did to hurt her over and over again. I hope that you can stay patient with her.
I do believe in the long run that you continuing to take responsibility for your part goes a very long way to restoring your M.
2, for some reason I couldn't get on the boards last night and i just got caught up. I AM SOOOOO PROUD OF YOU!! You have said to your W all the words I want to say to my H and I sort-of did in my letter but you did it so much better. Can you call and talk to him for me??!!! I know he feels just like your W does and I feel just like you do.
You are on your way my friend. The lack of trust thing has to be earned and supported by actions. She's right that it doesn't happen over night and I know that you know that as well. You are kicking some DB'g A$$! You are slowly penatrating thru that huge stonewall she has put up.
Your doing a great job of keeping the expectations in check, validating etc. Man oh man - fab, fab, fab.
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M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
