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[healthyself]

Beyondaffairsnetwork.com AWESOME site for betrayed spouses. DB coaching has been very beneficial for me as well. When an affair is involved, you can use as many resources as possible. I am so sorry you are having to go through this. Hope this site will help with some understanding about affairs & what is "normal" r/t to them. NOTHING about an affair is really "normal" or rational BUT it is helpful to see that what you are experiencing with your W grieving her affair partner/saying things like she never loved you...are ways they are re-writting their history etc. Very COMMON. Hope this helps!! Hang in there. Affairs are devastating...and when I realized AFTER I worked through alot of the affair issues, I still had our marraige issues underneath. The affair was a product of the marraige issues.