It's good to see someone from the Bay Area too. Welcome, but so sorry that you're at this point in your life right now. We may have differing circumstances to our marital breakdown, but all of us in this forum can share/offer similar advice and wisdom.
My wife is wanting an uncontested divorce as well, but I'm not sure how child custody/visitation will work. She is in medical school and she may move to another state for residency...how do I keep my life with my son, you know?