well, this detaching thing really [censored]. We just sat down to figure out the kid and daycare situation for the next 2 weeks. She is going to move in with her sister, 30 miles away. She will move in this weekend. Her staying here has not been working for her. She feels that she has no freedom. Feels awkward(her words). So we get a plan and it went well with no fighting or anything, I held my ground and respect was kept all around.
My wife is leaving me and I almost feel relief that we can start a life apart. I feel like I am giving up by letting her go so easily. I didn't feel the rotton empty feeling like she is going to never come back(which is a huge possibility) as I feel a husband should. I know she is very happy for herself, regarding a new chapter in her life.
I am not giving up, still on the last resort technique, living it the best I can. But it is a very somber moment. I may never be close to her again. [censored].