I don't think your far enough away from it yet to assign your phases. Not trying to be mean here Denver. This is one of those times when looking back down the road things will fall much more into place, forrest and tress type of thing.
No, I don't think that you're being mean J3B. And I agree. I guess what I'm getting at is whether or not you think that the phases have to occur in the order that you described them happening to you. Like I said, I didn't have a middle phase as you describe. Mine have occurred like this:
1. Distant/ignore W because of my own selfishness causing W to leave
2. Distant/ignore W bc she left and I applied LRT (from beginning of Dec through about end of January)
What I'm HOPING is that I am NOW going through the phase that you describe as the middle phase... but for me it is just happening in a different order.
But you are right, I won't know until I can look back on all of this craziness without being in the middle of it.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
