Just venting. Lawyers are soooooo much fun. But almost there. Should talk to my lawyer next week and finalize the agreement. I see her for who she is, even if she thinks she has changed. That helps because I know she still wants to try and hurt me. I know she wants to hurt me with the divorce/legal process and via the kids. I'm grateful she is spending more time with the kids, but I see that the kids are growing tired of it. I try to encourage them to spend time with her, but we'll see how it goes... Knowing these things helps me to protect the kids and myself. The legal wrangling is almost over and I realize that the kids will continue to make up their own minds. The best I can do for them is to encourage them to have a relationship with their mother. Otherwise, things are really good. I see so much more than I was willing to before. Very liberating even now.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
