Grr, grr, grr!! I so don't want to put a 2x4 to you... seriously, I don't.

But why? I know that you know not to do things like this? It's seems self destructive to me.

You said in one of your posts today that next time you will hold off on doing something like sending this letter. You already knew you should wait before you do or say anything when in an emotional state.

Grr, you have done a couple of things in the past couple of days that are just self defeating. It is okay to backslide, it is. We all do it. But when you do it, you knock your DB efforts back a couple of steps. I know that your goal is to DB successfully. So why would you want to take a step forward only to take another 2 steps back so knowingly?

It's like if you were playing monopoly with your H and you purposely decide to land on the 'go to jail' space! Please, please start thinking things through, and wait AT LEAST 24 hours before you do or say anything.

Now, get up, dust yourself off, and move forward!!

Go make yourself look hot wink

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Denver


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce