I still can't figure out for the life of me how W and I could be so much in love and discussing renewing our vows in June and then having the bomb dropped on me in October
I watch a show called Dexter...not going to recommend it to anyone dealing with an OM and time to kill.
In the show Dexter's sister is in a relationship, she an old boyfriend, and later tells her current boyfriend fiercely and over and over how much she loves him and attacks him...as in ripping off clothes attacks.
It triggered something...like she was trying to convince herself that she did love her boyfriend.
Like my wife did with me before the bomb.
Like, I am willing to bet some others here can attest to as well.
Things looked fine, heck even dandy prior to the bomb.
Like they were trying to convince themselves of the reasons to be married.
And we...we broken LBSes, didn't change and didn't see the need too...right?
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
