I haven't done everything wrong...

[islander]

I may not know my wife as well as I thought I did, but I know without a doubt what she is trying to do to our relationship. The more I act as if and befriend her, the more she is going to think that she is doing the right thing. Her perfect world is having me as a friend and keeping OM. This is what I do know.

I also know that I I tell her that we will not be freinds if she follows through with the D, it will possibly open her eyes to the full weight of her decision. It is very important to her that we remain friends. It is very important to me that we remain M.

I know that db is a guide that must be adjusted to the specific R. I am not saying that I will cut off all communication immediately, but she will notice me moving on.

I know how my W thinks, and I need to show her that I our R will not be the same as all her PR when she ended them

I did not have lunch with my W today. She did not feel well. I rescheduled it for Monday, and she will get take out and bring it to our house.