Gahh.... I just realised I wrote my H has an H. LOL sorry H's Dad had problems with alcoholism, drug abuse, spouse abuse, chronic infidelity ( that the children involved in), constant moves, and finally my H's Dad walked out when H and his siblings were under 10 , so there are abandonment issues in him too, along with religious abuse.
There! That's better.
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.