From a woman's perspective... man up and grow a pair. I don't mean to be rude or too blunt but a woman has to respect a man to love him.
Get your own A. For you, for DB. Do it now. It's not being mean, it's not duking it out in court.... it's protection for you and your daughter and it's being an adult. You want the last memory she has of your marriage to be you rolling over and giving her anything and everything she wants to please her with no self-respect, confidence or testosterone? Stand up for yourself, for your family but mostly for your daughter because how you treat your wife is how she will expect men to treat her. You want her to fall for a strong man, right? Be the man you want your daughter to look for someday in men. Be the man your wife has waited 11 years for you to turn into.
You've got a clear cut map of what to do... your W has told you what she doesn't like and what she wants changed. You have the opportunity to show real changes here. What do you have to lose?
Me - 38, 2nd M, no living children, 1 forever 6 yr old boy H - 44, 3rd M, twins 16
Dating 4/07 M 10/08 Bomb #1 12/10 Bomb #2 1/11 Bomb #3 12/11
