So reality check from you guys? SIC, am I being paranoid or is he probably cheating? Current or past tense?

He'll be home in a few hours, I have to figure out how to deal with this.

He called from the road, saying he's definitely coming home tonight. Thanked me for taking care of the boys and told me he loves me.

Why couldn't he just keep being a jerk? This would be easier. But to be the nicest, kindest he's been to me in 2 years and to seem to really be trying and now this? frown


Me - 38, 2nd M, no living children, 1 forever 6 yr old boy
H - 44, 3rd M, twins 16

Dating 4/07
M 10/08
Bomb #1 12/10
Bomb #2 1/11
Bomb #3 12/11