Thanks to everyone for the responses. I like Mach's idea. As much as I would love to show W how much I love and care, I just can't right now. I'll give her the space that she needs and give her no R talk or gifts....

This MLC crap $uck$!

Currently:
M 56 XW 57
Sons 38,33,31,29

The Sitch:
Married 26 years
EA w/ OM 9/10
Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary)
Sep 12/10
She wants D 1/11
W files 5/11
D final 10/11
XW marries OM 6/13