So....Valentine's Day. Do I do anything or just let it pass? We are seperated, she wants no relationship talk. Will doing anything for Valentine's Day help or hurt?


I hate Valentine's Day this year..............


Currently:
M 57 XW 58
Sons 39,34,32,30

The Sitch:
Married 26 years
EA w/ OM 9/10
Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary)
Sep 12/10
She wants D 1/11
W files 5/11
D final 10/11
XW marries OM 6/13