Ahhhh...ok, now I get it!!! That was an excellent example. I thank you OT!!!

Oh believe me, I'm myself in most aspects but I find that I am extra cautious when it comes to the parts of my personality that he claimed were the catalyst for the D. I am, by nature, sarcastic. No surprise to anyone here!!! He took things I said in jest and turned them into truism even though my actions didn't match that and decided that I was disrespecting him. Nothing could have been further from the truth but that is how he say it and I endeavor to not be that way. Of course that means the I'm not nearly as 'off the cuff' as I used to be. Is that a good thing? I don't know. It just tends to make me a little bit dull IMO.

Again, not sure why it would even matter. I don't believe he's in this for the long haul.


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!