Quote:
Read your posts. So sorry you are going through this. Wish I could offer some advice, but you've been getting some good advice already from others. There are some similarities in our situations - I've learned a lot the hard way over the past 5 years - if you want insight from my situation I'm happy to give it. I hope you are doing better this morning....


Thank you for the well wishes. I'm doing ok. I hope you're the same if not better!
I have a pretty predictable schedule of things I do regularly and the structure helps.

I'm sorry we're all struggling here. I have a very religious friend that says it's because the Devil hates marriage. She may have a point.

I would appreciate any insight you can give.
My H's background with his H involves a lot of things...
alcoholism, drug abuse, spouse abuse, chronic infidelity ( that the children involved in), constant moves, and finally my H's own H walked out when H and his siblings were under 10 , so there are abandonment issues in him too.


BITS
Me-51, WAS-52
Kids 2
M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013
Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice.
Love is a action and choice you make, every day.