Can I ask you something about your situation, since ours are similar? If H had taken the lead and additional responsibility would you have felt relieved, or would it have been uncomfortable?
If he had taken the lead without explaining what he was doing and gaining my cooperation first I may have been unoomfortable, no doubt about it. It's hard to relenquish that control/responsibility that you've been expected and often REQUIRED to carry it all your life.
Especiallyif your won self worth is tied up in doing and completing tasks and how well they're performed.
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.
