A a man, I'd view it as a territorial pi55ing contest, and as a man, I have no problem with what you did, your house.
As a man who DBs...
You attack the OM, verbally, or stupidly physically and you bind your wife and the OM tighter together. Outside pressure turns their little fantasy into an 'us vs them' and it doesn't serve your cause.
I do agree with Ed, do not beat yourself up about this, move on, the good news? The dirt bag, likely WON'T try that again. But if he does? Figure on him pushing your buttons to get a rise out of you.
You're better than a Pavolivian dog right? He does it again, just smile at the b-tard, let him know he isn't worth the effort.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
