No, I am not in a place where I could ask questions. May be misconstrued as resentment, and as for feelings, he has said many times times I need to accept the IDNLY and that our M is over. But he has stayed, for which I am thankful.
One of my faults is endlessly trying to mind read. I guess I just can't have all my questions answered, it just seems an unusual move to me. My BIL said to let it go, just try not to show resentment, and support him on this trip.
My intuition tells me this is a good thing for H.
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go